10 Steps to Develop a Strong Personality
If you want to build a strong personality, follow these steps:
1. Learn and Practice Saying "No":
A weak personality tends to agree to everything asked of them, even at the expense of their own well-being and interests.
2. Don’t Smile When Meeting Someone for the First Time:
Your face should not show anger or happiness but remain neutral and balanced.
3. Make Eye Contact When Speaking to Someone:
Look directly into their eyes without lowering your head or glancing to the sides.
4. Be Honest and Avoid Lying:
There’s no reason to lie. Similarly, don’t make promises you can’t keep. Apply step 1 and say, “No, I can’t.”
5. Never Disrespect Others:
A strong personality respects everyone, even their adversaries.
6. Don’t Undermine Yourself:
Self-respect defines how others perceive you. If you see yourself as insignificant, others will treat you the same way.
7. Be Generous:
Help others, even if it’s just offering encouragement. Avoid being overly pessimistic or fixating on trivial matters.
Sayyid Ali bin Abi Talib (RA) said:
"The comfort of the heart lies in not burdening oneself too much."
8. Master the Art of Listening:
Even if you know what someone is saying is incorrect, let them finish speaking. Then, correct them politely.
9. Avoid Excessive Talking:
Don’t be overly talkative, and refrain from engaging in matters that don’t concern you.
10. Keep Your Secrets and Be Discreet:
A person who maintains privacy has a unique appeal. Don’t be someone who is easily understood by everyone.
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